Posts tagged trans
2:38 am - Sun, Apr 15, 2012
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This is a guest post by Redlark. Redlark is a white, lower-middle-class queer activist working a pink collar union gig in the Twin Cities. They are working with an amazing group of friends and allies of CeCe McDonald to get CeCe’s charges dropped and help her move back into her normal life.

Cece McDonald stood up to bigots and survived a hate crime. Now she’s in the county jail waiting to be tried for second degree murder.

This is a story about intersectionality – what happens when a young trans woman of color goes up against white supremacy, misogyny and transphobia. It’s a story about what happens when you have to fight for your life.

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It began last June, the night of the 5th, when Cece and her friends – all young, black and queer – decided that they wanted to walk to the grocery store.

The grocery store in question is in south Minneapolis just off Lake Street, the busy, polluted, vital artery running from the wealthy white neighborhoods by the lakes through blocks of working class, multiracial, immigrant businesses before it ends in upmarket gentrification at the river. The grocery store is between the police station and the the light rail in a historically contested neighborhood where communities meet, mix and sometimes contend: the older white working class who bought in during the seventies and eighties meets immigrants from Mexico, Somalia and Central America who came looking for work or for political refuge; Native people still under the gun of colonization; African-Americans who’ve lived in Minneapolis for generations or arrived from Chicago or New Orleans in the last few years; students, punks and radicals, mostly but not exclusively white, gentrifiers or born in the neighborhood.

To get to the store, the group had to walk past a dive bar called the Schooner.

Dean Schmitz and his friends were standing outside the Schooner’s side door. All were older – Dean was 47 – and all were white. When they saw CeCe and her friends walk by, they started yelling – “faggots” “chicks with dicks” “n*****s” – a litany of vile abuse targeted at a group of much younger strangers.

CeCe McDonald has a strong sense of justice – she decided to confront Dean and his friends. So she and her group walked toward the bar.

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Before we go any further, let’s talk about CeCe.

She’s 23, a college student in fashion design, a trans woman, Black, femme, very funny and widely known to be a generous person – a woman who housed and took care of her chosen family of younger queer and trans folks. Her friends call her Honee Bea.

CeCe is someone who fights for social change who even from jail has been urging her supporters to help other victims of white supremacy – including the family of Jaime Gonzalez, who was killed by the Texas police while he was at school.

She is someone who has faith in herself, in her community, in her values. “Love is inevitable and overcomes any and all things,” she writes.

CeCe and her friends are brave and tough, strong enough to walk around being visible in a world that attacks and criminalizes you if you’re young and African-American, and doubles the assault if you’re young and African-American and trans and femme.

You probably know – if you’re trans you definitely know – that trans women of color face incredible, staggering rates of violence and homicide. In most places it is essentially legal to discriminate against trans people in housing, employment and social services. As a result, trans people, especially trans women, are socially vulnerable in all kinds of ways – and vulnerable turns into “criminalized”, whether it’s because you can’t change your legal documents to match your gender or because you’re homeless and panhandling or because you’re doing sex work to make the rent…or because you have to fight to keep yourself safe

Trans people are ten to fifteen times more likely to have been incarcerated than cis people. Nearly half of all African-American trans people have spent time in the prison system.

Seventy percent of the GLBTQ people murdered in 2010 were people of color. Forty-four percent were trans women.

If you’re vulnerable, you have to wonder – will someone assault you? Will you survive? Will anyone help you? That’s a pretty heavy thing to carry around in the back of your mind every day.

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CeCe and her friends knew the statistics, but they still dared to rebuke hatred when it spoke. They walked up the Dean Schmitz and his group, and CeCe told him that her crew would not tolerate hate speech.

But hatred hits back. One of Dean Schmitz’s friends told them, “I’ll take you bitches on,” and smashed her glass into Cece’s face, puncturing her cheek and badly lacerating her salivary gland.

There was a fight. Multiple people were involved. At the end, CeCe was on the ground in a pool of her own blood. Dean Schmitz was dead.

***
When the cops came, Cece was the only one they arrested. They took her to jail, withheld medical treatment, and sometime in the small hours got her to sign a confession. She recanted it as soon as she was able to do so.

Later, the medical examiner discovered a swastika tattoo on Dean Schmitz’s body.

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Let’s talk about white supremacy, because this it haunts this case.

White supremacy is a system, and it runs on routine plus terror. The routine is the dull grind of discrimination – the stop-and-frisks of youth of color in the hope of finding something to get their fingerprints are in the system, the heavy policing in black neighborhoods and the heavy discipline in schools when kids of color are involved, the biased, expensive court system, the unspoken but obvious job discrimination and always, always the white supremacist narrative in mainstream culture saying that people of color deserve what they get.

And then there’s terror. Whether it’s the Jim Crow South or the modern North, it’s the knowledge that at any time you can be attacked, hurt, killed and no one will do anything. That your body, your life, your friends’ lives could always be on the line.

Terror keeps the machine humming. If you act up – if you talk back – anything might happen to you.
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An interesting thing about prosecutor Michael Freeman: in the last year, he’s dropped charges against three people who killed accidentally while fighting for their lives. But he’s leaning on CeCe to plead guilty, and he initially persuaded the court to set her bail at an outrageous $500,000 – as if CeCe, the injured survivor of a hate crime, was some kind of risk to her community.

The court system isn’t neutral.

If you haven’t been on the wrong end of the legal system, it’s very easy to assume that the courts will sort everything out. Privileged people – white people, middle class people, cis people – can grow up identifying with the court system and with the idea of “neutrality” – especially when articulate white men in nice suits are talking. Something happened, privileged folks think, and the courts will figure it out, they’ll assign blame correctly, someone will pay a debt to society, and all’s well that ends well.

Here is what really happens: CeCe is in jail. Visiting is severely restricted, so getting a trans activist in to see her so that her friends can find her a trans-friendly lawyer is difficult. That lawyer has to work for free, because CeCe doesn’t have enough money and neither do her friends, and all her support committee’s money is going for bail. It takes a month to get meaningful treatment for injuries from the night of the attack, so her cheek swells up with a lump the size of a golf ball. She gets put in solitary “for her own protection” – which means ‘because she’s trans’ – and the support committee has to organize call-ins to get her out.

In order for a prisoner to be able to call you, you have to pay a monthly charge to a phone security service, and her friends are struggling to get work. So money has to be found for that. And the trial date has been moved once. Every time a trial date is set, her support committee mobilizes people — thirty or forty people have taken vacation days or changed their schedules so they could show up. Will it be moved again?

It’s easier and cheaper for the court system when people plead guilty, and it results in a politically-useful higher conviction rate. In the United States, the number of plea-bargains has skyrocketed in the last two decades and the number of actual trials has gone way down.

This is how the courts get people to take a plea – prisoners get tired and worn and confused and low in spirits, so they plead guilty just for a little certainty and an end to the ordeal. And many, many of those are people of color.
***

This isn’t just about CeCe. It’s about the way young women are harassed and assaulted every day in every city. It’s about the way trans women are treated as disposable and the way black youth are criminalized. It’s about the constant social violence by which white supremacy, transphobia and misogyny are maintained.

And it’s about whose experience counts. When we believe CeCe, we’re saying that we hear trans women, we hear youth of color and we believe what they say about their own lives. We name racism, we name violence, we name prejudice – and we refuse them with all the strength we have.

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We need to get the charges against CeCe dropped. There’s precedent, the prosecutor has the authority and a victory here would be a victory for so many people – for CeCe, for her community and friends, for youth of color and trans youth who face violence and hatred. To do this, we need to get Michael Freeman to listen. We need voices. We need media.

We need to make it clear to Michael Freeman that this case is visible – we aren’t going to forget about CeCe no matter how often the trial gets moved, and we aren’t going to forget about any miscarriage of justice, either.

You can call Michael Freeman at 612-348-5540, fax at 612-348-2042, and email at citizeninfo@co.hennepin.mn.us

Remember to remain polite but don’t be afraid to be assertive. Some key points to mention in your calls, emails, and faxes are:

*Identify yourself as a supporter, friend, family member, or community member calling about Ms. Chrishaun McDonald’s case.

*Tell the County Attorney’s Office why you’re concerned: Ms. McDonald was the target of a hate crime, but she was singled out for aggressive prosecution after the attack.

*County Attorney Freeman has declined to press charges in cases like this at least three times already this year. Remind him that he has the power to drop the charges against Ms. McDonald.

Tell Freeman not to side with Ms. McDonald’s white supremacist attackers: drop the charges against Ms. McDonald.

For more information and new developments: www.supportcece.wordpress.com. You can sign the petition calling for Michael Freeman to drop CeCe’s charges here.

(Source: transfeminism, via shuddertree)

8:37 pm - Tue, Dec 27, 2011
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Transgender Group Starting January 12 Oakland

Title: Transgender Group Therapy

Date: Thursdays starting January 12th, 2012. 

Time: 5:00 pm - 6:30 pm 

Repeats: This event repeats every week. 

Location: 725 Washington St. Suite 213 Oakland, CA 94607. 

Limit: 8-10 people. 

Rates: $35-50 per session. 

Contact: Call to schedule an intake: Kellen 415 320-0141
www.bennettpsychservices.com

Notes: This group is for those self-identifying as transgender 
or gender variant. This is an opportunity to discuss 
gender variance issues or transitioning. In addition, this 
can be a forum to discuss relates issues, such as 
depression, anxiety, or self-esteem, within a safe and 
supportive environment. Find the support you need within a 
group process. 

1:25 am - Sat, Apr 30, 2011
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transpride:

1. Ask permission to ask questions. Even if you think you know they are comfortable answering, they may actually not be or maybe not in that setting, and it is just rude and pretty off-putting to not ask. Say, “Hey do you mind if I ask you some things about your transition? I’ve been a little curious – feel free to not answer or say no.”

2. Avoid private and personal questions. Even a so-called open book like me doesn’t want to discuss my sex life with most anyone. If you really want to know about trans men and sex, ask in general terms – i.e. “Are many trans men ‘stone butch’ in bed?” vs. “Are you stone butch in bed?” BIG difference.

3. Do not ask questions that in any way challenge the trans person’s gender identity or expression or could obviously lead to dysphoria. Do NOT, for example, ask if a trans man will grow to be ‘average male height’ or if a trans woman is uncomfortable with the size of her hands. I’ve gotten, “Are you ever going to look your age?” Ouch, honey.

4. Phrase your questions in a way that affirms a trans person’s gender. And avoid anything that defines the trans person in terms of who they once “were.” This is pretty simple, actually. Instead of asking if someone is “still legally female,” ask what the steps are to becoming legally male and if they have completed them.

5. Avoid comparisons to non-trans people and never use the term “real” in distinguishing between transgender and non-transgender people. “Cisgender” or “non-trans” are the only appropriate ways to signify non-trans status.

6. If it is a general question, try Google first. There is a lot of information on the internet and an open trans person should not be a stand-in for your own research.

7. Do not ask what the person’s birth name was. There is absolutely no reason for you to need to know this and it is likely something this person wants distance from. It is a particularly offensive question when phrased, “What is your REAL name.” After all, Sebastian is my real name and has been since I started asking people to use it.

8. Request specific permission to ask questions relating to genitalia, even if you’ve already received general permission to ask other personal questions. “Are you comfortable discussing your genitalia?” Chances are they aren’t. After all, do you want to talk about yours? But some people are and I acknowledge that there is definitely education needed on the topic so I am not opposed entirely to asking questions, as long as you get extra permission first.

9. Be wary of your phrasing. If you aren’t sure how to talk about trans issues, you need to announce that in the beginning. Be open to correction and don’t get defensive if a trans person is offended by something you say. As a heads up, don’t refer to a trans person as their previously-assigned gender – don’t say “when you were a girl” to a trans man for example. A more accurate and safer route is “before you transitioned” or “when you were living as a girl.”

10. Be aware of your setting. These are private conversations. Don’t approach someone at a crowded party or in algebra class and expect them to have a trans chat with you.

11. Be sensitive to the person’s comfort level throughout the conversation. If they’ve given you permission but are obviously growing uncomfortable discussing things, don’t press. Be grateful for the information you’ve gained and change the subject.

12. Respect the person’s privacy. Unless this person stated otherwise, the personal information they gave you is not for you to share with the world.

(Source: transpride)

1:05 am - Sat, Mar 5, 2011

How to Make Love to a Trans Person

By Gabe Moses

Forget the images you’ve learned to attach
To words like cock and clit,
Chest and breasts.
Break those words open
Like a paramedic cracking ribs
To pump blood through a failing heart.
Push your hands inside.
Get them messy.
Scratch new definitions on the bones.

Get rid of the old words altogether.
Make up new words.
Call it a click or a ditto.
Call it the sound he makes
When you brush your hand against it through his jeans,
When you can hear his heart knocking on the back of his teeth
And every cell in his body is breathing.
Make the arch of her back a language
Name the hollows of each of her vertebrae
When they catch pools of sweat
Like rainwater in a row of paper cups
Align your teeth with this alphabet of her spine
So every word is weighted with the salt of her.

When you peel layers of clothing from his skin
Do not act as though you are changing dressings on a trauma patient
Even though it’s highly likely that you are.
Do not ask if she’s “had the surgery.”
Do not tell him that the needlepoint bruises on his thighs look like they hurt
If you are being offered a body
That has already been laid upon an altar of surgical steel
A sacrifice to whatever gods govern bodies
That come with some assembly required
Whatever you do,
Do not say that the carefully sculpted landscape
Bordered by rocky ridges of scar tissue
Looks almost natural.

If she offers you breastbone
Aching to carve soft fruit from its branches
Though there may be more tissue in the lining of her bra
Than the flesh that rises to meet itLet her ripen in your hands.
Imagine if she’d lost those swells to cancer,
Diabetes,
A car accident instead of an accident of genetics
Would you think of her as less a woman then?
Then think of her as no less one now.

If he offers you a thumb-sized sprout of muscle
Reaching toward you when you kiss him
Like it wants to go deep enough inside you
To scratch his name on the bottom of your heart
Hold it as if it can-
In your hand, in your mouth
Inside the nest of your pelvic bones.
Though his skin may hardly do more than brush yours,
You will feel him deeper than you think.

Realize that bodies are only a fraction of who we are
They’re just oddly-shaped vessels for hearts
And honestly, they can barely contain us
We strain at their seams with every breath we take
We are all pulse and sweat,
Tissue and nerve ending
We are programmed to grope and fumble until we get it right.
Bodies have been learning each other forever.
It’s what bodies do.
They are grab bags of parts
And half the fun is figuring out
All the different ways we can fit them together;
All the different uses for hipbones and hands,
Tongues and teeth;
All the ways to car-crash our bodies beautiful.
But we could never forget how to use our hearts
Even if we tried.
That’s the important part.
Don’t worry about the bodies.
They’ve got this.

(Source: genderqueerchicago.blogspot.com)

via Fuck Yeah Menfolk

               Unbelievably fine.

(Source: howtomakelovetoatransperson)

3:53 pm - Thu, Apr 22, 2010

Action Alert- Transgender (TEEI) Budget cuts SF

ACTION ALERT

Come Show Your Support for the Transgender Economic Empowerment Initiative

San Francisco’s Transgender Economic Empowerment Initiative (TEEI) just received the news that our valuable and innovative program is being cut from the San Francisco budget.  The TEEI collaborative partners, who include the Transgender Law Center, the LGBT Community Center, Jewish Vocational Service and SF TEAM, were shocked when we learned that TEEI was being eliminated due to budget cuts at the Human Services Agency.  We need your voices to save this crucial program!

Tomorrow morning the San Francisco Human Services Commission is holding a hearing on the proposed budget cuts. Please join us! We need people to attend the hearing to show the Commissioners how important TEEI is to our community.

Save TEEI!

Human Services Commission Hearing

9:30 am

Thursday, April 22, 2010

Born Auditorium, 170 Otis Street

San Francisco

TEEI is a one-of-a-kind program that helps transgender individuals find and retain good jobs.  The program prioritizes community empowerment and includes comprehensive job search support, mentoring, and legal services and education.  TEEI also works with employers to ensure workplaces are free of gender identity bias.

To date, TEEI has helped place transgender people in over 125 jobs, even in this stark economy.  Across California, transgender people experience unemployment and poverty at twice the statewide average. This economic injustice cannot be undone without comprehensive employment services addressing the unique needs of transgender job seekers.  TEEI is at the forefront of ensuring the economic health of transgender San Franciscans, and is a model to communities across the county.  San Francisco cannot afford to lose TEEI! Please come to tomorrow’s hearing and show your support!

To stay up to date on TEEI, please visit our website at www.teeisf.org or on Facebook at http://www.facebook.com/pages/Save-TEEI-Dont-let-this-service-get-cut/115404511821768?ref=mf

If you have questions, please contact:

Kristina Wertz, Transgender Law Center, 415-865-0176

Davey Shlasko, Jewish Vocational Service, 415-782-6268

Clair Farley, SF LGBT Center, 415-865-5632

8:23 pm - Fri, Apr 9, 2010

TRANSMISSION SF Citadel April 30

The next TRANSMISSION, the SF Citadel’s trans centric party, is coming up on April 30th from 7:30pm-1am at the SF Citadel!  Be you transgender, transsexual, MTF, FTM, M2M, F2F, gender queer, gender fluid, gender fucked, gender non-conforming, or simply a friend and ally of trans folks, you are welcome. Bring your toys and your diabolical imaginations, and dress whatever way makes you feel sexy— fetish, leather, goth, punk, casual, cute, bunny suits, footy PJs, whatever floats your boat! For this party, transpeople are no longer the minority, but instead will rule the dungeon as never before.

Wanna get into the Citadel’s hottest new party FOR FREE?!

Then volunteer! Email sftransmission@gmail.com with your top 3 preferred shift types (list below) and top 2 times you’d like to volunteer (early, middle, late) and I’ll do my best to accommodate you!

DM (must be certified)
Setup
Cashier (must be Citadel trained)
Bouncer (door)
Food
Clean up

FIRST COME FIRST SERVED, SO HURRY UP!

Hope to see ya’ll on the 30th!

mo, Asher, Clint and sailor

9:54 pm - Mon, Apr 5, 2010

Transgender Job Fair 6 April 28, 1:00pm-4:00pm, San Francisco

Transgender Economic Empowerment Initiative (TEEI) presents:

Transgender Job Fair 6 

Wednesday, April 28, 1:00pm-4:00pm, San Francisco

MORE INFO: www.teeisf.org

The Transgender Economic Empowerment Initiative (TEEI) is hosting its FREE sixth annual Transgender Job Fair at The San Francisco LGBT Center. TEEI is the nation’s first program designed to help transgender job seekers find - and keep - good jobs in safe workplaces.

Meet supportive employers who have completed workplace inclusion training, offering opportunities in: retail, non-profit, administration, customer service, government, management, hospitality, healthcare, and more!

Pre-job fair workshops and groups held throughout April. Visit the TEEI website for details. All events, including the job fair, are free, but registration is required.

We have helped Transgender community members find jobs in safe, exciting workplaces, and past job fair participants have included:
Bank of America
California Pacific Medical Center
Gap, Inc.
Kimpton Hotels & Restaurants
Macy’s
Pacific Gas & Electric
SF Police Department
SF Public Utilities Commission
Trader Joe’s
UCSF
Wells Fargo Bank
and more!

Please bring your resume and wear your interview outfit!

DATE/TIME:
Wednesday, April 28 
1:00pm-4:00pm

LOCATION:
The San Francisco LGBT Community Center
1800 Market Street
San Francisco, CA, 94102 
415-865-5555 
www.sfcenter. org

COST/REGISTRATION:
Free, but registration required.
jobfair.sfcenter. org/

MORE INFO:
Website: www.teeisf.org

About Transgender Economic Empowerment Initiative (TEEI):
TEEI is a unique collaborative program designed to help transgender individuals find stable jobs that provide a living wage, benefits, and opportunities for advancement.

TEEI partners include:
The Center (The San Francisco LGBT Community Center)
SF TEAM (San Francisco Transgender Empowerment, Advocacy, and Mentorship)
JVS (Jewish Vocational Service)
TLC (Transgender Law Center)

8:36 pm - Sun, Mar 28, 2010

Sex and Spirit May 8 and 9 SF

Flesh and Spirit Women’s Community presents:
Sex and Spirit:  A two day workshop with Isa Magdalena
Saturday and Sunday, May 8 and 9, San Francisco

Welcome to Your Sexual Truth!

Dare to Say It, Be It, Love It!

Are you gender queer, or trans, or a queer woman who would like to be better friends with your own body and sexuality?
This Sex and Spirit workshop is embracing more of the gender galaxy! 

What difference would it make in your life if

  • you fully accepted and celebrated your unique body?
  • you honored your erotic desires and expressions?
  • your body and spirit felt more connected?

 This  workshop, hosted by the Flesh and Spirit women?s community, offers a place where you can expand your experience of sex and spirit,  as  it lives in your own body, in an environment that is safe, sacred and playful.   

During this workshop, we will talk and touch, breathe and move, listen, feel and meditate.  We invite you to experience:

  • Being friends with your own erotic body
  • Connecting deeply with Self
  • Connecting deeply with Spirit
  • Knowing more of what you like and how to ask for it
  • Discovering when your body says “yes”, when it says “no” or “maybe”
  • Expanding your language of touch

Details available at   http://www.fleshandspirit.org/fsw_sexSpirit.html
Email Barbara at jasminesf@aol.com with questions or for more information.

3:46 pm - Mon, Mar 22, 2010

Support Trans Film FOURPLAY

I’m using Kickstarter to raise the funds I need to complete SAN FRANCISCO, the first in my series of short films entitled FOURPLAY.  Kickstarter is a unique fundraising concept: supporters pledge as little or as much as they like toward an art project’s stated goal.  If we reach the goal within our stated timeframe, everyone pays in. If not, no one does.  As little as $10 (the price of a small meal out) could help a lot, and as I’m not getting married, needing house warming gifts, or running a marathon, consider it a gift for the only kind of baby I’m ever going to have … a work of art.

Will you pitch in with a pledge? Like PBS and NPR, there are gifts for pledging:

—$10 or more gets you an autographed lipstick kiss from the movie’s star, Paul Soileau.

—$50 or more gets you a risque 8’ x 10’ autographed photo-print of Chloe, the transvestite sex-worker who inspired the film. Naughty! Plus a kiss from Paul!

—$100 or more gets you a signed copy of the gay graphic novel series SHIRTLIFTER (Vol 2 or 3) by artist Steve MacIsaac. One lucky donor gets a special limited edition photo print thank-you card! Plus you’ll be listed in the final credit roll under “Special Thanks”! Plus a kiss from Paul and a pic from Chloe!

—$300 or more gets you a limited edition signed and numbered 16”x13” etching by artist Louis Russomanno of a female nude (FLORA, MORNING GLOW, or THE MODEL) valued by collectors at around $350. Plus you’ll be listed in the final credit roll under “Special Thanks”! Plus a kiss from Paul and a pic from Chloe!

As you may know, the film’s subject is somewhat controversial, rendering four true graphic tales of sexual intimacy. With the film, we mean to honor our understanding of sexuality, with its complications and idiosyncrasies, told with humor, sincerity, and love. No pornography. No brutality. Just weird and honest sex.

Supporters of the project include Austin Film Society and producers Michael Stipe and Jim McKay.  Would you please add your name to the list?!  Carlos and I would appreciate it very much.

Check out the trailer, posted at the site.

Thanks for your support!

Kyle Henry
kylehn@hotmail.com

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