May 2012
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her daily grind: wet (day 2) →
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On my old blog, I wrote a series about all the different ways I could get myself off. I don’t think I was actually trying to brag. More like, I figured I’d document it, and maybe start a conversation with the other readers about how they liked to come. And I did. I got a whole series going at one…
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Voz Sutra // the practice of voice: Coming Home:... →
vozsutra:
Thanks so much to Dick Schmidt for this fantastic photo (and to Jan Haag, who passed it on to me!) — Dick shot it on Maui last year, at a cafe/shop called Na Kani O Hula. The sign reads: Haven’t had an orgasm today? Come on in… we can help! Kind of a perfect fit, don’t you agree?
It’s National Masturbation Month- Celebrate! Read this blog- and get inspired.
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Still humming and throbbing after Femmes Go Dirty...
Sunday night I had the crazy pleasure of reading with a rock star line up of fierce, femme, dirty word slingers at The Center for Sex and Culture. I got to see and hear guest star, Alysia Angel- who came directly from the South, whose characters are so well drawn and powerful they are still wandering around in my heaYou can see her in person and hear her get bawdy tonight at Bawdy Story...
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The Perverted Negress- Why You Should Pay Me →
Mollena tells it like it is. Takes on class and race and the alt/sex and sex education communities, specifically producers. This is important and should be what people are thinking and talking about if we ever want any actual inclusion and respect for EVERYONE.
And if we don’t- why the hell not?
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“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is...”
– Audre Lorde (via feminismistheshit)
That’s right.
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Sex, Drag, and Male Roles →
Investigating Gender as Performance Diane Torr and Stephen Bottoms
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Send CeCe Books →
thecurvature:
CeCe can- and would love to!- receive books in jail. All books need to be new paperback copies sent directly from a publisher or an online bookstore. She can also receive newspaper and magazine subscriptions.
CeCe is very interested in drawing, music, fashion, dance, and pop culture. Please keep her interests in mind when sending her reading materials. The following is a list...
April 2012
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Center for Sex and Culture: An Evening with Hanne... →
centersexculture:
Since 2000, Hanne Blank has spent her time working, writing, and helping people think and thrive at the intersection of bodies, sex, and culture. Join her for a rare, one-night-only Bay Area evening of whip-smart, dead sexy spoken word spanning the smutty, the intellectual, the historical, and…
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This Is What Happened to CeCe →
This is a guest post by Redlark. Redlark is a white, lower-middle-class queer activist working a pink collar union gig in the Twin Cities. They are working with an amazing group of friends and allies of CeCe McDonald to get CeCe’s charges dropped and help her move back into her normal life.
Cece McDonald stood up to bigots and survived a hate crime. Now she’s in the county jail waiting to be...
March 2012
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The night before IMsL
IMsL- International Ms Leather begins tomorrow. I will be blogging from the event so if you have an interest- follow what’s happening by clicking on Queerly’s other flavors, and then Queerly Kinked.
I’ve been up since four. I went to get my new hair cut touched up (and it still isn’t right but that’s what I get for trying to get a fancy hair cut when I’m a...
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Radical Love: A Workshop for Exploring Open...
Radical Love: A Workshop for Exploring Open Relationships with Wendy-O Matik ~ March 29, 7 - 9pm $20 single/$35 couple Directions will be sent upon pre-registration. Polyamory advocate and radical love warrior Wendy-O Matik, author of “Redefining Our Relationships: Guidelines for Responsible Open Relationships”, is leading the love revolution with her book and her Radical Love &...
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February 2012
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Leap Year Sex Shindig! Center For Sex And Culture... →
$10-one zillion dollars sliding scale
Come celebrate this rare leap day with unusually awesome performance, and help CSC get on top of its bills so we’re all set to bring you a whole new year of fabulous sexology, smut, art and culture, and education. Pass the word! Bring your friends! And bring some dough, because there will be a silent auction AND a chance to win a high-end OhMiBod vibe! For...
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Bleeding Hearts...a celebration of dysfunctional...
Bleeding Hearts…a celebration of dysfunctional love. A spoken word event
A Valentine’s Day Benefit for The Center of Sex & Culture
MC Simon Sheppard will be wrasslin’ a bevie of fine writers performing for your smutty souls on this night of St. Valentine.
Performances/readings from -> Charlie Anders, Daphne Gottlieb, Bill Brent, Sherilyn Connelly, Jen Cross, horehound...
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Bellydance for every size in Oakland starts next...
A reminder to shimmy! Bellydance classes are starting Monday, February 13th and Wednesday, February 15th in 2 convenient Oakland locations! Your Body Raks. Yes, your body rocks! Taught by Etang Inyang and Tammy Johnson of Oakland’s favorite, award-winning bellydance duo, Raks Africa, Your Body Raks celebrates bodies of every size through bellydance. No dance experience is...
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Volunteer Training at The Riley Center starts soon...
Open Letter from The Riley Center:
Dear Community,
Please pass this along to friends, co-workers, loved ones and others who might be interested in a paid or volunteer position supporting survivors of domestic violence:
The Riley Center seeks people committed to:
• Supporting survivors of Domestic Violence.
• Challenging all forms of oppression that contribute to intimate violence.
• Developing...
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Job Opportunities at The Riley Center, SF
The St. Vincent de Paul Society of San Francisco’s Riley Center offers safe and confidential services for women in abusive relationships, along with their children, from the point of crisis to a woman’s achievement of self-sufficiency
The Riley Center is hiring for two positions. One is a part time Case Manager focused on enhancing services for African American survivors at our Community Office...
Trans Sexuality - A Safe Sex Zine →
tobitastic:
Safe sex information is almost universally designed for non-trans (and straight) folks, and then that information is given to us when and where it applies. However, there is a lot of information that is unique to trans people and trans bodies that never gets included. This zine answers the question, what would sex ed look like if it was designed specifically for trans people and...
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Interesting reading- From Experimental Theology →
“Because here’s the deal, does I’ll Fly Away make any sense when it’s sung by rich people of power and privilege? I mean, what the heck are you flying away from? Life in suburbia? The Caramel Macchiatos at Starbucks? The vacations at the beach? The fact that you have clean water, indoor plumbing, central heating/air, and two cars? But when I’ll Fly Away is sung by...
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Help Vixen Noir make her debut song
I am Vixen Noir (aka Veronica C. Combs) and I am finally pursuing my dream of being a singer, songwriter, recording artist SuperStar! I am running an Indie Gogo campaign to raise money to get my first project off the ground: the making and releasing of my debut song, “Dangerous”, and the music video! The countdown by the hour has begun and as of today, 1/29/12 at 9pm, I HAVE 51 HOURS LEFT TO...
December 2011
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Transgender Group Starting January 12 Oakland
Title: Transgender Group Therapy Date: Thursdays starting January 12th, 2012. Time: 5:00 pm - 6:30 pm Repeats: This event repeats every week. Location: 725 Washington St. Suite 213 Oakland, CA 94607. Limit: 8-10 people. Rates: $35-50 per session. Contact: Call to schedule an intake: Kellen 415 320-0141, www.bennettpsychservices.com Notes: This group is for those...
November 2011
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Occupy Oakland 12:54
http://www.livestream.com/globalrevolution
Alameda Sheriffs and Concord Police gas protesters at 16th and Telegraph.
September 2011
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it’s not just in your head: ATTENTION QUEERS →
queeragripoetics:
I’m doing research for a project at my work (I’m a domestic violence advocate) on violence in LGBT relationships and I’d love your imput. If you have experience with dating/domestic/intimate partner violence in a queer relationship and you are comfortable sharing…
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Click here to DEFEND THE LAND →
tj:
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Auntie Pixelante sez:
i thought i was over caring about the michigan womyn’s music festival – a “women-born-women”-only festival on the basis of some arbitrary essentialist standard. but today i found out that a “michfest” blog posted a list of trans women who, despite the vitriol, discrimination and hatred they face at such an event, are brave enough to attend or have...
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Lesbian Werewolf Party with Biting Booth | Mission... →
kukkurovaca:
Oh, for fuck’s sake.
Oh I don’t know…wolves, lesbians- it could be fun. Or disturbing. Or both!
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BreakOut! Fighting the Criminalization of LGBTQ... →
fuckyeahlgbtqlatinxs:
“BreakOUT! organizes LGBTQ youth ages 13-24 who are most impacted by the criminal justice system through weekly “Building Our Power” meetings. In the first section, youth build off of knowledge and experiences they already have through a curriculum that includes workshops on LGBTQ Radical History, Gendered Police Repression and History of the Prison Industrial...
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Free gay workout and $9 bottomless... →
via dykealicious
pain and champagne…
If I worked out like for real with a bunch of dykes and then drank a lot of champagne I’m pretty sure I’d die- but maybe I’d die happy. It is just the champagne that’s bottomless right?
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Women's Initiative for Self Employment →
Women’s Initiative for Self Employment provides high-potential, low-income women with the training, funding and ongoing support to start their own businesses and become financially self sufficient. The women who go through our program significantly increase their income and assets while launching businesses, creating jobs and stimulating the local economy. We have five offices and 18...
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August 2011
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“Here’s another way students are cheated. In elementary school, which I teach, we...”
– “Poverty Is the Problem” With our Public Schools, Not Teachers’ Unions | | AlterNet
This is just incredibly true and important and pressing and you should all read it right now because it is vital. I’m completely serious.
(via heavenearthandhoratio)
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sexgenderbody: Suggestion for new holiday:... →
sexgenderbody:
One day out of the year where humanity simply ignores every single word out said by white men.
Ron Paul spouting off about not helping hurricane victims because somehow it will get done without government. Seriously, this is as insulting as it is asinine. If a black guy or a brown skinned man…
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